My life got turned upside down...

  • ...Sorry I've kind of disappeared.


    To be blunt I've caught my wife having 7 affairs over last 2.5yrs, plus multiple dodgy 'friends' conversing in ways I never would have tolerated - some of whom I never even met or heard of!? - and lies she's been telling me for 12 years.


    Right now I've got through the worst - it's all with the solicitors now.


    It's been messy.


    Once I know were I'm at I'll pop down again...I've got two weeks now stripping the house out of her stuff.


    It's like I rolled 36 dice and got all 1s.


    It's unreal.


    Thankfully I have some solid family & friends.


    Kind Regards


    Shaun aka Ming

  • Well to be honest that post is the sanitized edited for public release version.


    Thanks Fellas.


    I could right 3 books on what I found out.

    It's like a Russian Doll of lies.

    And I'm really preferring not keeping secrets right now.


    Only my counsellor & solicitor have heard worse stories.


    Nobody died.


    Thankfully I never got her pregnant.


    I should be able to keep the home I've built for 5 years



    But for now I'm relying on a counsellor to help me deal with what I found.

    Absolutely everybody else who's known us together for 12 years has gone "WTF!?"

    Yeah I need to get back to club - my Rogue Trader bud said as much to me at Xmas.


    My head just isn't calm enough to sit still and paint. Been doing a LOT of exercising...


    Right now I've given myself 2 weeks off work to sort out the possessions in the house and catch up with things like posting here. Just making sure I do something every evening.


    I may be able to get down next Friday - but I'm giving blood in the afternoon - sometimes makes me drowsy after.


    Yes I'm giving blood on Valentine's Day - that was intentional!